Speaking

Real stories, real numbers, no theory.

I speak to rooms of owners, producers, leaders and men, and I bring the same thing to every one of them: what actually happened, what it cost, and what to build next. Three talks, one for the business, one for the story, one for the man.

Eighty-eight seconds from the From Conflict to Conquest keynote, NABIP Arizona annual conference, April 2025.

One proof point

Annual keynote, NABIP Arizona, 2024. More than a hundred people lined up afterward for a signed copy of Wounds.

Ryan's perspective on business significantly improved my outlook and activity, and that of my employees. His willingness to be vulnerable with his life story has inspired us all to strive for higher quality in ourselves and the work we do for clients.
Kelly FristoePast NABIP National President, CEO of West Texas Group
Ryan James Miller speaking at the NABIP Arizona annual conference
The room at NABIP Arizona during Ryan's keynote
Ryan James Miller on stage
Ryan James Miller teaching from the stage
The talks

Three talks, each with one job.

Keynote or working session

SOS: The Sales Operating System

It is not about doing more. It is about doing what works, every time.

If your best salesperson quit tomorrow, how much of your pipeline walks out the door with them? Hold that number. This session is about the four chaos symptoms every owner-led business shows, the four pieces that fix them, and the real story of an agency that went from six producers to nine, all working the same process whether the owner is in the room or not.

What the room walks away with

Three tools, filled in during the session: a scored pipeline scorecard that names their weakest symptom, a quick-win worksheet with one move for this month and who owns it, and a 30-day roadmap on one page.

Who it is for
CEO peer groups, agency owners, sales leaders and other business owners. Built for a U-shaped room of twelve to sixteen decision makers and scales to a general session.
Format
45 to 60 minutes with two short breakouts, or a half-day working session. Zero pitch from the stage.
Keynote

The Key to Unlocking Greatness

What hurt, heartache and tragedy are trying to teach you.

It opens in April 2019, in the corner of my office, on the floor, with my largest client about to walk. I had been taping it up for thirty years and that day the tape quit. This is the talk built on the framework from my book Wounds: acknowledge the hurt, realize the effect, unlock the greatness. One story and one exercise for each step, and a card on every seat that nobody else sees.

What the room walks away with

Their own wound, named on a card nobody else sees, with the date it happened, where it shows up in how they lead, sell or love today, and what it qualifies them to do for someone else. A three-step framework they can run again on the next one.

Who it is for
Faith rooms, men's events, churches, association keynote slots. A faith version and a purpose-driven version, same bones.
Format
45 to 60 minutes. Signed copies of Wounds available for attendees. No offer is ever made in a remembrance moment.
Keynote or men's breakfast workshop

Winning on Paper, Drifting Underneath

Why successful men lose ground where it matters most, and how to close the gap.

You can build a business that works and a life that does not. This talk names the drift in faith, marriage, body and calling that slips while the business keeps paying, and the three enemies behind it: the Performance Trap, Silent Isolation and the Purposeless Grind. Each one gets a story from Wounds, the milestone it blocks, and an exercise the room does on the spot.

What the room walks away with

A scored Gap Check card showing which of faith, marriage, body or calling has drifted furthest, one finished sentence about where his worth comes from, the name of one man who knows the real score, and one move this week toward what he was made for.

Who it is for
Men's events, church men's ministries, CBMC and Christian business groups. Faith rooms only.
Format
45-minute keynote or a 75-minute men's breakfast workshop. Closes with an invitation to The Aligned Man, apply-only.
How it works

What a planner needs to know.

  • Who books me. CEO peer groups, association chapters, agency and owner groups, sales organizations, churches and men's events.
  • What the room gets. One thing to do Monday morning. I do not do motivation without a mechanism.
  • Faith. It is underneath the work. In a corporate room the language is purpose-driven. In a faith room it is faith. You tell me which room it is.
  • No pitch from the stage. Zero pitch, maximum value. If people want more, they find me afterward.
  • Books. Signed copies of Wounds are available for your attendees.
  • Based in Orange County, California. I travel, and every talk also runs virtual.

Questions planners ask first

What does Ryan speak about?

Three talks, each with one job. SOS: The Sales Operating System, for owners and CEO peer groups, on the four pieces that get the owner out of the pipeline. The Key to Unlocking Greatness, the keynote built on his book Wounds, on what hurt, heartache and tragedy are trying to teach you. And Winning on Paper, Drifting Underneath, for men's rooms, on why successful men lose ground in faith, marriage, body and calling, and how to close the gap.

Who does Ryan speak to?

Insurance and benefits association chapters, agency and owner groups, sales teams and men's events. He has keynoted a NABIP state annual conference and works with agencies and producers every week, so the stories are current.

How long is a keynote?

45 to 60 minutes plus Q&A. The SOS session also runs as a half-day working session, and Winning on Paper runs as a 75-minute men's breakfast workshop.

Does Ryan sell from the stage?

No. Zero pitch, maximum value. The talk has to earn the right to a conversation afterward.

Does Ryan speak at secular events?

Yes. Faith is underneath the work, not on top of it. In a corporate or association room the language is purpose-driven. In a faith room it is faith.

How do I book him?

Use the form on the Work With Me page, pick Speaking, and send the date, the city, the room and what you want people to walk out with. You will hear back within two business days.